Lash Help Series: How to Get Your Natural Lashes Back

As anyone who's tried eyelash extensions can probably tell you, the worst part is getting used to your natural lashes again once the extensions are gone. Whether it's due to irritation, lifestyle, or a certain deadly virus that shall remain nameless which has your lash tech out of work and unable to get you in for fills... you probably won't be able to keep your extensions up forever. That said, here are some tips for getting your natural lashes back on track for long, healthy, full eyelashes, regardless of their current condition.

A nice before and after that would work just as well the other way for post-extension goals.

1. If you still have a lingering extension (or four) that's just too stubborn to come off on it's own, please do not just rip it out! Not only will you lose the natural lash prematurely, but you also risk damaging the follicle which could later affect lash growth in that spot! Instead, try applying a little bit of coconut oil with a q-tip and gently working it off from the base. Whatever you do, don't cut them either because it will just make them blunt-looking and even more noticable.
***the first thing you learn when doing lashes is patience and this goes for removal too!

2. Nourish your natural lashes with coconut oil (I prefer this to petroleum jelly because it's more natural and works just as well for creating an occlusive barrier to lock in moisture and strengthen the hairs) or castor oil to boost lash growth. You can also try lash growth serums like Grandelash or the popular one from Rodan & Fields, but keep in mind these might cause subtle pigmentation or irritation along the lash line.

When the damage has been done and you're due for some serious re-growth!

3. For more damaged lashes, try to limit the use of your eyelash curler and mascara (especially waterproof or longwear formulas which can be drying) as the pressure and stimulation can cause even more damage. Opt for bare lashes as much as possible or try a more nourishing/strengthening mascara formula. I prefer mascaras from more natural brands like Jane Iredale, Tarte, Pacifica, or Neutrogena's Healthy Volume mascara.

4. If you're really missing your eyelash extensions try strip lashes instead. There are a lot of high quality ones available nowadays in a variety of styles that can even be reused if you keep them clean. Just make sure you attach them properly to the skin at your lash line and not directly on the hairs to avoid any damage.

A mini version of a lash pillow a picked up a trade show, it allows you to sleep on your side without crushing your lashes.

5. Lastly, remember to keep up your good lash habits. As tempting as it might be without your extensions, don't rub at your eyes! This is still just as bad for your delicate skin around your eyes and can harm your fragile natural lashes too, and it's another reason not to touch your face. The same goes for sleeping on your face (which can also cause premature wrinkles if you need one more reason to kick the habit).

So remember to be gentle and by being a little more accepting of yourself and your lashes, you'll see results in no time!